Ziziphi iinkumbulo zakho zobuntwana? Xa ndandisengumntwana, ndandisoloko ndijonge phambili kunyaka omtsha, ngenxa yokuphela konyaka, utata uya kuthatha oodadewethu baye kwivenkile encinci bayokuthenga izinto zonyaka omtsha. Sijonge imali, kuphela sabelwe yona engqondweni katata. Inxalenye yemali isetyenziselwa ukuthenga izinto eziyimfuneko mihla le, kwaye enye imali isetyenziselwa ukuthenga iziqhamo kunye namashwamshwam ukonwabisa izihlobo kunye nabahlobo ngomhla woNyaka oMtsha. Icandelo lokugqibela elishiyekileyo kufuneka lisetyenziselwe ukuthenga iziqhushumbisi.Utata angakhetha ukuthenga ezinye izinto ezingaphantsi akanako ukwenza ngaphandle kweziqhushumbisi kunye neziqhushumbisi. imisebenzi yomlilo ngalo lonke ixesha, ukuthandabuza ukuhambisa inyathelo elincinci. Ngelo xesha, njengomntwana emaphandleni, usapho lwalungazityebi, kwaye nangamagama ethu, yayiyinto encinci kakhulu. Ekupheleni konyaka, usapho lwam alunakukwazi ukuthenga izinto zonyaka omtsha, ngamanye amaxesha utata kwakufuneka aboleke imali kwizalamane nabahlobo bakhe ukuze athengele usapho izinto zonyaka omtsha. UTata uhlala esithi nangona usapho luhlwempuzekile, kufuneka kusoloko kukho usuku lonyaka omtsha unyaka wonke. Ewe, nokuba ubomi busiphatha kanjani, soloko ugcina intliziyo entle, intliziyo enombulelo. Isibane sokukhanya ebumnyameni, iqela lezinto ezomeleleyo zokukhanyisa kuwe! Imisebenzi yomlilo ihamba nam ebuntwaneni, imisebenzi yomlilo mayigcwalise iinkumbulo zam zobuntwana, imisebenzi yekhaya yam engenasityebi yazisa ukuhleka, umoya ogcwele ivumba lomlilo bubomi bam ulonwabo olungalibalekiyo!